Why?

Why do we compare ourselves with others?

Really, why do we do it? There is no way that we will be the same. We weren't created to be the same. We were all created to be different. So then why is it so hard to just accept yourself as you are? Or an even better question, why do we expect so much from our spouses,family, and friends? They are who they are...we can only help them acheive their dreams but we cannot change them to fit some mold we "think" is better.

It is interesting watching my kids grow up. Now, they are not big (grown up) by any means but somehow they have plenty of self confidence and truly believe they can do anything. I hope and pray they never lose that.

I was interviewed last week for a newspaper article. The reporter asked me what I hope that my children learn from me by watching me do my endurance sports and my involvement in my parish community. I simply stated I hope they see a role model. Now, looking back this is what I would say. "I hope that they see a role model. I hope that they see they can do anything they put their mind to...they are going to have to work hard but with that hard work...you get your dream. Regardless of what that dream might be. Health is a gift from God. Don't waste it."

Friend...I have been away for a while. I am still here. Please call.

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you...all of you beautiful, strong, wise, and talented people. YOU are just the way God made you.

Peace!